Why Social Signals You Cultivate Are Valuable

Being social takes effort and if you really commit to the “time sink” that is social media, you will understand just how long you are going to have to chase and refine what you do in order to win.

Winning is subjective in that one person’s win in social media, is another person’s fail, it depends on your goals, and whether you’ve selected the right ones.

I list here some ideas on where time is sunk, to give you more of a wake up call. You should never hand over your hard work so easily. It is not something you should do without serious thought on what you receive in return.

Why Social Signals You Cultivate Are Valuable

It should be obvious why on the face of it but in order to explore this idea further I’ve broken this article down into some key areas;

  • Attraction
  • Cheating (which is referred to as “gaming”)
  • Loyalty
  • Approach
  • Exodus (going beyond just a lack of social retention)
  • Momentum


Making the Share Attractive

Is where most people on social media spend 90% of their time. Social media is based around “signals”, a concept you will see me refer to a lot in this article. In order to conform to attractiveness there are lots of hoops to jump to put your audience at ease.

• Visually attractive images
• Eye grabbing titles
• Witty descriptions
• Correctly used hashtags
• Links

Then you need the following to seal the deal;

• Deployment at the correct time
• Rabid followers to push up early numbers

Deployment at the correct time puts you in the right window to gain traction. You need the Rabid followers (your circle of common engagers) to bump up the numbers so that your item will appear in the wider viewing sphere.

• You can further endow social share with cash, cold hard cash. Facebook, Twitter and all the big platforms give you a bigger bite at a wider audience with your hard earned doubloons.

Everything snowballs from there (but only if it is good). You could spend the advertising money on something that is actually terrible, so whilst you might get views, you won’t get signals. Signals are what you want. Signals means shares, shares mean visitors, visitors means subscribers, subscribers means direct traffic, direct traffic means potential income stream, but definitely a huge pat on the back from the search engines (which means more traffic).

Engagement is the goal. Not visitors alone.


“Gaming” the System

I’ve seen it advertised many times, and there are many third party bolt-ons to platforms such as Facebook, Twitter, Google+, Pinterest and Instagram. I would strongly recommend that you stay away from trying to game followers.


Fact: Gamed followers aren’t “real” followers.

Q: What’s better about a “real” follower?

A: Real followers actually engage with your work, and follow your point of view (but might not always agree with it). These people are real in the sense that you’ve provided them something they like in the past, and that they would do something for you in return as a thank you.

It’s also better you know how to gain friends.


All Followers are Fickle – Every Relationship has an Expiry Date

Which is to say that given time, people will abandon you for a number of logical reasons, but may touch base with you in passing again in the future (as long as they didn’t leave for negative reasons).

Social Media is a moving, evolving feast.

You will receive different types of engagers during your journey.

Followers may connect with you purely based on the fact that they are “gaming” their followers. In that case I would recommend that you observe some form of sense-making screen before you allow that connection. Does their association work for you or not? I would say that you should screen all those who connect with you, like you would if this was something you were doing on a personal level.

There are those who have an “expectation” on reciprocity. In other words, they will continue to interact with your work (whether they truly like it or not) as long as you do the same in turn. The ease of that will depend on how much they push out, and for more ‘active’ producers, that intensity might be too much to satisfy. If you stop being their agent (turning in your aid), they’ll stop being your agent but that doesn’t mean they won’t return in future.

  • There will be followers who are genuinely interested in what you are providing and who may be experts themselves. These are the kinds of follower who can be quite helpful for you.
  • You will receive what I class as the ‘drive by’ engager. They stop for one thing and you will never see them again.
  • There are ‘passives’, who you think are stone cold dead, but are actually absorbing a lot of your content without making a lot of noise. These can also be deemed consumers.
  • Followers might appear who are actually there to recycle your hard work. Recycle especially if you are ‘famed’ or have followed a route that has yielded gold. Even the Bigwigs get in on this act.


Social Approach

There are many types of engager. The more you do social “right”, the more you attract the “right” kind of engager. It’s not always a matter of it being a dark art either. It is more a method of approach and knowing how to process in a way that looks organic.

Real conversation is important. This exchange identifies where you can talk to someone in a natural way without tripping over on trying to push your agenda, or having an agenda pushed at you. Participation is the aim. If you can recruit people to participate with your universe you can appear to be a successful facilitator. Facilitating will encourage more of the “right” engagers.

The more you are present on social media, the better you do, but conversely the longer you are on social media, the less time you have to perform the work you need to. Hence the “time sink” angle.

Hustling and chasing in engagement does work but you can alienate followers if you micro-manage to a degree where you come across as “pushy”. I was on an email subscription of a blogger, enjoying the man’s work, but he bombarded me each day with information I didn’t really care about, eventually it just was too much and I unsubscribed. Think of any time you’ve unsubscribed from a similar situation.

Smell of Sell

I have an age old saying of “Smell of Sell”. All promotion in social media determines some form of sell. There are many followers who can be turned off by the “Smell of Sell”. This is because in a media rich world, with an advertising saturation, the traditional signals are often ignored or viewed with antipathy.

Taking my Twitter as an example, I try not to be too much of a pedal merchant because it is quite easy to lose people if you push too much of your own old content, or just too much content. You can also lose people if you push too much of other people’s content and none of your own.

That said, social approach is a balancing act. You are an entertainer to a degree, you have to know how to work a crowd.


Social Exodus

If you’ve been out too long from appearing “active”, your followers will leave in droves. I’ve done this myself, having left individuals who have “curled up”, and I’ve also been someone who has been inactive for too long, returning to a much reduced follower count. Those engagers who remain are normally; the stalwarts, those who don’t interact very much, those who know you are away, or those who are pedal merchants that always see you as a “mark” regardless of your status.

Social exodus can also happen through saying something stupid that incenses the masses. People may leave in their droves if you go far enough to upset your audience in an “unforgivable” fashion. A social exodus can happen quickly or over a protracted length of time but when the social signals really start to tank, many will vote with their feet.

An exodus event can happen if the bottom falls out of the market you are appealing to, or the platform you are socialising on goes out of business. If you were solely engaged as a video maker on Vid.me, you now have no platform, as an example. Whilst many contributors don’t limit to one platform, many favour a certain platform. If YouTube was to be closed down, think of the potential damage that would have on many YouTubers who depend on the income to keep a shirt on their back.



Social momentum is an important concept because social signals are a token system that requires your constant vigil. If you should step off the gas pedal at any time and are not ultimately consistent in your endeavour, momentum will fade.

Number attraction is a science and it does work. It works because “cream subjects” float to the top and thus you will have a blinkered, filtered, view of what is popular. Naturally most interested souls will gravitate towards what’s popular. Certain numbers on certain social signals invite large amounts of additional attention. It is the queue mentality. Often people might join a queue, not knowing what is at the end of it, but heading there on the theory that other visitors find it good enough to queue for. Consider social signals like adding another arrow to direct you to the pot of gold. The fact that the pot of gold isn’t as advertised is neither here nor there.

Ahmad Imran – Reasontouse.com

I am hugely envious of my net friend Ahmad Imran, over at reasontouse.com. He has kept ploughing on consistently whilst I have dropped long off the boil, and I am sure that he has the improved number to show for that extended effort.

I do not have that luxury. If anything, I have to start from the start. I’ve lost all of my well-wishers, and all of my decent connections through a protracted absence. I’m only left with a solitary stalwart as far as I am aware.

At least I still have Ahmad there to act as a “smelling salt”, someone who would question me if they weren’t entirely sure they went along with it. It is terrible to have a ‘yes’ man or woman who agrees with everything you do because you can be falsely supported on what you think is right, but which actually turns out to be hokum.


In Conclusion

You can see why every effort you make to form your following is so valuable. You have to go through the sweat of everything above. If a corporation retcon’s your followers, you are handing them a free steer, a free bite at your hard work.

Whether these corporations have earned this “free bite” of the cherry depends on what they provide you in return. It also depends on whether you consider what you achieve on the internet to be owned by yourself.

If you looked at a very granular level at everything that occurs behind what you do, you might suddenly realise that in a large part, you are a corporate entity, an agent in an unbelievably large information bureau. The only difference between a tangible world entity is that in the real world you get paid on day one. Working on these free platforms traditionally engenders working for free from the start, and accepting that the platform owns a large part of what you do.

The important point to realise is that these corporations would be nothing without your presence so you should aim to extract the maximum from the arrangement, because ultimately, you are owed it through your own proliferation of information.

How to Install SumoMe on a Self-Hosted WordPress Blog

SumoMe provides a useful set of tools to help with a number of audience building activities within your blog. Installing the plugin on your WordPress dashboard, then activating some of the key features will stand you in a good stead.

How to Install SumoMe on a Self-Hosted WordPress Blog

Step 1: Login to your WordPress Admin.

Step 2: Head to the Plugins section on the left hand side


Step 3: Click “Add New”

Step 4: In the Search field (top right), type in SumoMe


Step 5: Click on the SumoMe “Install Now” button


Step 6: Activate the Plugin post installation (note, if the installation failed, check your settings)


Step 7: Follow SumoMe’s setup link


Step 8: Register your Email Address/Password (step not shown)

Step 9: Follow the mini-tutorial to get your feet wet (this will take you through List Builder setup)

Note: Many of the more useful functions are set under the “Pro” features so be aware of this as you set up the apps you want to use.


At this stage you can play as much as you want but I will now include step to setup “Share” and “Highlighter”. Depending on how much friction you want to generate with your readers, you can also use “List Builder” and “Door Mat”.

Shares Setup

Shares allows your audience to share your article with the wider social world. Another benefit is that you can use the weight of number strategy to encourage the audience further.

Note: Showing the number of Social Shares is visible as a default. This option can be deactivated.

Step 10: Set up Share by clicking on the “Share” button


Step 11: Press the “Activate” button.


Step 11A: Choose the “free” option if presented to the far left (step not shown)

Step 12: In the settings tab to the left adjust your required social media accounts as suits. These are simply dragged between the Available and Selected Services fields by clicking and dragging.


Step 12A: If you have more than 6 services, adjust the option to change the number shown.

Step 12B: Click “Save” in the bottom right when happy.

Step 13: Go to the “Layout” tab

Step 13A: Set up Share Buttons Placement. Click on the location you want the share button to appear. You can select more than one location. Ensure you have a good share placement on your mobile screen as well.

Tip: The middle most position on the right and left of the screen will follow the article down to the bottom as the reader scrolls down the page. If you hover over each location, the dialogue box will tell you where the location is situated (if it is not obvious).

Step 13B: Press “Save” in bottom right


Step 14: Go to Services Tab

Step 14A: Enter your Twitter username

Tip: this is quite important as it will append the @blogprefect (in my case) to the share.

Step 14B: Press “Save” in bottom right


Step 15: Shares is now set up. To return to the apps screen, press the ‘X’ button in the top right

Note: You can toggle this app on or off simply by hovering over the app in the SumoMe Dashboard and clicking the toggle. Grey/Gray is off, Green is on.


FYI: I think SumoMe has a Taco fetish.

Step 15A: Click the X button in the top right to return to the SumoMe app dashboard.

Highlighter Setup

Step 16: Click on “Highlighter”

Step 16A: Activate the App (as with Step 11)


Step 17: Enter your Twitter Username (you don’t need to add the @ sign)


Step 18: Press “Save” in the bottom right

Step 19: Press the “X” button in the top right

Step 20: Highlighter is ready to use!


In Closing

There is much more you can set up from the apps list. Many of the items will require the “Pro” version to have full functionality.

I found a problem with the Contact Forms which has meant that I can’t use it at the moment. My issue is that the text entry boxes have resized to unusual dimensions and the overall box is squeezed to minimum dimensions which is less than useful. I suspect this is my theme/CSS setup rather than the box itself so I’ll have to have a tweak under the hood.

I will be evaluating the plugin over the next 3 months to determine if it is worthwhile using going forwards.

Contact me at headboy [at] blogprefect [dot] com, via Twitter or via Google+. Feel free to comment and share to your heart’s content!



Preview the changes before settling on your placement. Allow the audience to get used to the features before fine tuning!


Image Credits

Featured image edited by Jackson Davies, SumoMe logo copyright of SumoMe. Sumo wrestler and Taco image from Pixabay.com

All images with the SumoMe logo or SumoMe content are copyright of SumoMe and have been used for illustrative purposes only.

What is social proof in blogging?

In this article I wanted to look into the ways in which you may need to invest in your process in order to get returns.

Would you think about working free of charge with your first client to build social proof?

Social Proof, what is it exactly?

What is social proof in blogging

On a number of occasions I have highlighted the necessity for Social Proof. This needs more explanation.

  • You have your product/service ready to go then what?

Without social proof very little is going to happen, there will be some apprehension by your potential customer because they don’t want to risk a bad service event when they can see other providers doing a better job with more warmth. You might not even appear on the radar because the customer has filtered by best recommended. Tried and tested equals money.

Social Proof is a marketing term. It relates to a signal that your customers love your service or product and have had a good trust relationship with you. You can think about the artifacts of Social Proof including; Testimonials, Positive Comments and Pure Numbers.


Testimonials are much better than just Positive Comments and Pure Numbers. You know that with the person who wrote the Testimonial, you can contact that individual directly and ask them a question on how the person providing the service handles them. When you see a successful individual using somebody else’s service it may naturally drive you towards further inquiry.

Testimonials show the best side of customer to supplier relationship. (mostly because you’d never put a negative testimonial in front of a prospective customer).

Entrepreneur magazine provides a useful summary on Testimonials here: “How to effectively use testimonials”

Positive Comments

Positive mojo in abundance is another sign that your customer will get something good out of what they are spending their time doing.

If your customer decides to take a wander along your site’s blog and sees plenty of engaged customers, they are reassured by this, as supposed to hundreds of negative comments.

Comments aren’t quite as reliable as testimonials, through censorship and through skullduggery; you can manipulate what is shown. Remember that with Testimonials, a potential new client can track that individual down, ask them a true reflection of the service you provide.

With a comment, it is a more static affair, potentially subversive by the way in which the subject has been devised. You could be talking the talk but not walking the walk. You could have employed commentators.

Comments are very valuable and should not be treated lightly.

Ryan Biddulph was able to cement a sizable empire with his blog commenting, he even wrote a successful ebook about it.

Pure Numbers

I have in the past talked about “Weight of Number”. This is a borrowed philosophy from somebody much older and wiser than myself. Sun Tzu was a famous general of the Chinese army. He was a master strategist and tactician who wrote a short but effective book called the “Art of War”. You should understand that weight of numbers will often conquer resistance.

Attack few with many,

And my Opponent

Will be weak. – Sun Tzu

By seeing number of clients served, numbers of jobs worked to a satisfactory completion, and number of positive ratings, you can be more reassured that this isn’t an overnight flash in the pan. Seeing numbers insinuates that the provider has honed their craft and has developed a suitable operating capability.

There is a dark side to Social Proof

There are those that are honest.

Through a moral code, individuals work from the void of nothing, to gain eventual kudos, this gives them a platform to drive further sales. It is a hard journey that requires a dogged determined streak.

There are those that are dishonest.

These are the individuals who will bypass a moral code and shortcut the process. They will seek methods of driving interest through various “Boosting” activities which will give them an elevated position relative to their time served.

In order to survive in competition, you might have to occasionally embrace the dark side and employ methods of getting ahead because starting blank can be painful.

What methods can be employed to “get ahead”?

I’m going to mention a number of service sites that bloggers tend to use as well as some other examples of e-commerce. You might be able to relate to some of these strategies because you might have tried them.

Amazon: Paying someone to buy your product and write a review.

You don’t want to be a Johnny no star. An obvious tactic is buying a 5 star review with a suitably lengthy and descriptive comment, biased to be positive from the off, jump starting the sales process. One review may not be enough, you may need to obtain a handful of these reviews to get the ball rolling.

This can apply to all sorts of products but is especially effective on unique, untried and untested products that don’t naturally sell.

You can apply this strategy to more than just Amazon. Any outlet that provides reviews can be influenced in this manner. All you need is the capable reviewer and the money to pay the fee. Some reviews can be done in exchange for things other than money (like other reviews or something of equal value).

There is danger with this strategy though. I found two particular articles that highlight this problem.

Huffington Post “Five Stars for Five Dollars”.

Motion “Bad Idea: Paying for Amazon Reviews”.

Shilling: Attracting that first activity.

A “Shillaber” or the term known as “Shill” is to have someone in the crowd ready to take up the mantle of going first. The origin of a shill was an employee in the times of the circus to get people to laugh or in a magician’s show being a willing participant. Fear is a negative driver and many people are fearful of going first, often they have to be coerced to take action.

Consider a group of tourists in Australia who are about to undertake a bungee jump for the first time. Do you think they are more likely to jump after the instructor takes the first drop successfully to demonstrate the harness is safe and the height is right? Of course they are. If that didn’t happen, the instructor might call for anyone who has been bungee jumping before to step up to the plate.

The act of watching that person go first spurs others to do the same. In some ways we act to do things as a community. Sheep, ducks and cows flock together. There always has to be the first water buffalo to cross the crocodile infested river in Africa. Once the first has successfully navigated that water, the rest follow, with safety in numbers.

You may go as far as asking your mother, father, partner or friend to be that first sale with a full refund. There is nothing wrong with that. It’s that first turn on the turnstile.

The wrong comes in products and services that are sub-standard. Where you have the gall to put high praise on something that is clearly deficient is often a date with trading standards or some furious backlash.

Facebook: Paying for activity.

There are numerous vendors who will provide followers, likes and impressions for cash money. Depending on the quality of the vendor, they have ready established networks to provide warmth, uplifts in number and some form of target to your goods or service.

As mentioned, quality will vary! Depending on what you are trying to achieve, often the numbers alone, in this high-speed world, will be enough to sway your prospective client. Proof of engagement can often be more difficult if the quality is low so expect scrutiny.

This activity can be applied to all social media outlets, all you need to do is find the right vendor for the right flavour of social media you want to uplift.

Would I recommend this activity?

I would initially say NO.

You can lose track of your true engagement very quickly if you hyper inflate your numbers through this method. You can effectively cheapen your hard-won audience and make a mess for yourself.

Taking this as a personal example:

I have a small number of Twitter followers but I know for the most part of this group, they will respond to me if I contact them.

On the other hand I have approximately 1,800 Google+ followers and I know that I have a very small group of individuals (in the 1% range and thus disproportionate to twitter) who will respond if I ask them to.

If you were to ask me which group I prefer, I would say Twitter even though I have been working longer with Google+.

If you put in genuine work to cultivate your audience, it has a better pay out in the long run. Don’t shortcut your audience.

But I said initially….

Social media can be used in different ways and depending on how you are trying to sell your product or service, a significant short-term boost could be necessary. There is nothing like time to drive a sense of urgency. If you have a time limit, paying your way higher might be a necessity.

Separating adverts from the mix

Advertising is not cheating, and is not what I consider; the dark side. Advertising is a genuine activity where you pay to get more exposure to potential. I say potential because even though your advert can be served up on a platter to the right person, this person still requires taking the required action, normally the responses are minimal. It is just those techniques where you move into deception territory where you have to be careful.

You can drag a horse to water but you can’t make it drink.

The crux of this post:

I will be launching a number of services on my new blog. I cannot claim that any of these services will be unique in the market but I can claim that I am uniquely performing these services and as I become more competent these services will evolve to become more unique.

In order for me to get traction, I need a willing first participant to be my prototype client for one key service, to help me develop the potential. I have a good idea of the types of clients I would like to attract and also have a good idea on how to expand the operation.

This key service is important because ultimately it could be the biggest driver of profit. The service needs to reach a return amount that could aid to free me from my 9 – 5:30 current day job.

The selection of this candidate is an easy one for me. I know and have commented on this person’s blog for months and know that I can have a good working relationship with this individual but it is not a done deal.

There is a sacrifice to be made however.

I will be working for this client for FREE.

What do I stand to get out of this arrangement when I am likely to be working hard for this person?

There are a number of benefits:

  • A Testimonial will be provided straight off the bat. This person knows me, we have a good relationship, we share some affinity. I can rely on this person to speak well of me.
  • I am able to feature this person’s work, and the work I do to improve it, extensively and exclusively.
  • I can call on this person to improve my prototype service, give me essential feedback on what I need to improve to make the process smoother and more professional, and provide ideas for developing the premium package.
  • This person may be able to assist me in isolating future clients who meet the same criteria from their already thriving network.
  • I can work a more flexible arrangement to suit my time commitments.


In terms of strategy, I will be driving a lot of traffic around the service page and my writing as part of the blog is going to be more focused around the subject of “writing”.

If you have followed Blog Prefect’s track for any length of time you’ll know that it follows a more general track along the aspects of blogging and how to do it like a boss, along with the occasional useful how tos, the shared traffic report and some rare diversions.

In conclusion:

  • The important note to draw upon; is that starting out blank, without social proof is a difficult step to jump, especially if it is hard to persuade someone to go first.
  • There are many creative ways to kickstart the process of getting that first customer by using others to help. The payoffs are worthwhile. Social proof is not an element that should be ignored in the launch process.
  • Not every arrangement has to involve money to be beneficial.

I look forward to having a new site in January and hope to see you there! I’m keeping the domain name under wraps at the moment.

3 Habits of successful bloggers

There are some identifiable attributes within certain bloggers that shine through. I’m not suggesting that these bloggers begin with these habits but they definitely develop into them over time.

3 Habits of successful bloggers

3 habits of successful bloggers

Image Source: My name is Gigi

#1: Being Social

It may seem fairly obvious but being social is a key aim in spreading the word. How do people know about you and your values if you don’t talk to them? Blogging professionals are expert in keeping an audience entertained, engaged and following.

This person is master or mistress of his/her social domain, in command of far more followers than the norm, a veritable army of active commentators and helpful fans.

They command authority through time served and deeds rendered. They have the weight behind them, the wind in their sales and the driving force required to sustain, survive and weather any storm.

They are careful, considerate and mindful. They are honest in any crisis.


#2: Exuding a positive mental attitude

Having a positive mental attitude is contagious. If you can impart a positive way of going about things, other people can learn far quicker by that example than they can by a negative outlook. Being positive is contagious in that other people want to share in that good feeling. It could be that one little tip that saves you x amount of time or generates x amount of views or converts x amount of people.

An audience can take a cue from your attitude, they can approach their struggles in the safe knowledge that somebody else has faced that before and overcome it.

Setbacks may plague you as an entrepreneur but you’ll be able to push through those barriers with a positive mental attitude. Not all fixes are quick ones but with a positive mental attitude you take it all in your stride. You learn those negative lessons and turn the learning experience into a positive.

We all make mistakes but the trick is to be positive in how we learn from them. Never say never again (Yes Miss Moneypenny!).


#3: Being open to opportunity

Opportunity knocks but the real key is to spot one and make it work. Successful blogging Entrepreneurs are those people who can implement and operate this opportunity to a distinct competitive advantage.

It’s not just how you discover an opportunity; it is how you own it. In order to build capability, you have to do something better than someone else. Better doesn’t always mean doing the same. Opportunity springs from providing something different than what the status quo offer.

Making opportunities work is more about how you’ve successfully managed your business in the past, did you do the basics brilliantly or did you make a pigs ear of it? The successful blogger is an individual who can rise above the voices of others, survive in the information sea, provide those opportunities to others and make an art form out of assimilating the new and making it work for them.

Blogging and making money is a large part of an analyst’s task. Can you spot the patterns, observe different ways of doing things, make it work effectively? Sometimes you have to go beyond the copycat mentality of some and step beyond, create something of true value and protect it as best as you can.


It is not enough for me just to say these inspiring words about habits I’ve observed

Evidence speaks louder.

My three particular blogging maestros include Pat Flynn, Neil Patel and Ana Hoffman. If you’ve been reading my blog for a while you might have seen them mentioned before but I feel that these are three people you should take some cues from if you are serious about the direction you are going.

Note: I didn’t just want to throw names at you because that is a common business studies trick to avoid talking in depth on a subject. You talk about someone you hope people know about to frame a point of reference on a subject. I am not always convinced with theory heavy subjects that this way is helpful, but in outlining successful bloggers, I have to indicate some notary figures. Also in pointing out my three, this may vary to your top three. I outline these three because they are the most useful to me and I’m fully versed in their successes.

Pat Flynn is the master of Opportunity but he is nothing without his attention to being social and having a positive mental attitude with him at all times. He runs many websites but his hub is SmartPassiveIncome.com, You can learn so much from this site in a short space of time that it would be stupid to pass it up.

Neil Patel is the master of Positive Mental Attitude. Just like Pat Flynn, he runs many ventures but has a key hub in the guise of QuickSprout.com. Once again, Neil Patel is also a master of social engagement and I support his attention to detail when responding to those who comment on his work. Neil Patel is no stranger to Opportunity management, having made millions through his consultations with major companies including Microsoft. Nothing holds Neil back from trying. Crazyegg and Kissmetrics are two other ventures that Neil has been a part of, both are very successful.

Ana Hoffman is the Queen of being social. Her key site is trafficgenerationcafe.com and she is able to navigate networking with veritable ease. Just like, Neil and Pat, she handles both opportunity and positive mental attitude in the same successful manner and you can be rest assured that she does nicely out of her position.

Success is not limited to these three. I haven’t mentioned John Chow, Guy Kawasaki and a whole slew of others. There are hundreds of successes. There is most definitely room for you in that list if you try hard enough.


How do you determine failure?

The last part I wanted to mention to round out this article is how you determine failure in your plan for success.

As a blogger you should see failure as not trying. As long as you are trying you are not failing. Some things you try might fail but only because you don’t know how to manage them properly. Failure is sometimes the quickest route to success because you learn more from a failure than you do from a success.

Few historians went into detail about all the drawings that Leonardo Da Vinci created that didn’t work, only the ones that had merit. He must have had half a tree of crazy drawings in his lifetime. Just think about that for a second! Leonardo wasn’t just an artist, he was a visionary and yet he probably created half a ton of crazy. Other important people at the time of Da Vinci, most likely thought that his tank and helicopter designs were complete bonkers. Sometimes radical changes come across that way. In looking back at this work from our modern time, his basic concepts were inspired, light years ahead of their time but only because some other crazy person tried to do the same.

As long as you stay positive, fend off the frustration, and learn from your mistakes, you will start to see the grand smell of those successes. It may take time to permeate through the rock but eventually you’ll reach that greener pasture. Don’t let failure prevent you from striving for greatness as in every failure, hides a road to success!